Touchy subject alert. Most leaders believe they’re setting an example they believe inspires their team. Maybe it’s showing up early, working late, and focusing on KPI’s and driving results. Perhaps that proves commitment. But do people follow the burnout cranky boss? Or is this the old idea of sacrificing yourself that just doesn’t resonate with any generation past the Boomers? Today what’s inspiring is the right positive energy, integrity, and alignment.
Employees crave meaning more than titles, leadership by command is obsolete. You can’t build trust through authority anymore—you build it through embodiment.
A New Leadership Crisis
Sobering statistics show that burnout is at an all-time high. Teams are disengaged. Entrepreneurs are stuck in “I’ll just do it myself” and “super micromanager” mode.
But what is the real problem? Leaders still operate from the outdated playbook of control—thinking they can push people from behind into excellence instead of pulling them with them from the front through inspiration.
People don’t rise because you told them to. They rise because you showed them how.
The Mirror You Don’t Want to Look Into
If your team doesn’t take initiative… If your clients aren’t consistent… If your business feels heavy and slow… You’re not dealing with a performance problem. You’re dealing with an alignment problem.
Your people mirror you. If you’re exhausted, unclear, or constantly in “firefighting” mode, your team feels that. Leadership is energetic architecture—what you model sets the tone more than what you say.
Every leader leaves a frequency behind in the room. So before you write another email, create another policy, or demand accountability from others—pause and ask:
Would I follow myself?
Leadership That Resonates
Leading by example doesn’t require perfection but congruence. When actions match words, your team feels safe. When energy aligns with your message, your clients trust you. When your life reflects your leadership philosophy, your credibility becomes magnetic.
Real leadership today must disregard hierarchy and focus on resonance. Resonance only happens when you ARE what you preach.
The Shift
Old leadership: Command, control, correct.
New leadership: Embody, empower, elevate.
The world doesn’t need more bosses. It needs more builders of trust, more conscious leaders who live what they teach, and more entrepreneurs who walk their talk—even when nobody’s watching.
Because leadership isn’t a title. It’s a daily practice.
Final Thought
If you’ve been leading from pressure and with pressure instead of presence, this is your invitation to pause. Look at where your actions, words, and energy are misaligned. Then strategize on a cohesive plan to get out from behind and get in front so you can rebuild—on integrity, on truth, on resonance.
👉 Reflect on this: Would I follow myself?
And if your honest answer is anything but a yes then you know what you need to do. That’s your starting line. If you want to connect and explore if you vision is aligned with your execution strategy connect with me.
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It’s time to lead by example—not command—and build the kind of leadership people can feel.
Let’s grow,
Beate